Sunday, October 7, 2012

Kids on the Move

September 2012.

Kids on the Move is Utah County's Early Intervention program.  We have been receiving services from them since March 2010.  We originally noticed that Hunter was not hitting developmental milestones when he couldn't lift his head while on his tummy.  We found out about Kids on the Move (KOTM)and called for an assessment.  At the initial assessment Hunter qualified for physical therapy (PT), occupational therapy (OT), and general development therapy (GD). Fisher did not qualify for any services at that point.  Hunter eventually added speech therapy.  About 4 months shy of 3 years old, Fisher qualified for speech therapy too.  It has been a sad month.  Kids age out of KOTM at 3 years old and transition to the school district if they qualify.

We have loved the help that we have gotten from working with KOTM.  The therapist come right to your home and work with your child in his own environment.  It has made a major difference for Hunter and Fisher.


Hunter's PT
Hunter's original PT was Becca Smith and she was awesome!  In May of 2012 she had a baby and quit with KOTM so we got a new PT.  Her name was Nicole Poland.  Hunter really liked Nicole.  She was always so nice and positive.  Nicole helped Hunter with balance and movement in and out of the walker.  We worked for countless hours on the steps trying to teach Hunter to come down backwards.  We are still working on this!  Nicole came to see Hunter one time per month. 
 
Hunter's OT
Hunter's OT was Gary Robinson.  Gary was the very first therapist to start working with Hunter.  He came to our home the longest.  Gary was our favorite.  We especially liked Gary because we felt like he genuinely cared for Hunter right from the beginning.  Gary helped Hunter hit so many milestones.  He helped Hunter roll over, go from tummy/back to sitting, and he brought us the corner chair that eventually helped Hunter to sit.  Gary helped Hunter learn the pincer grasp and to reach for his own spoon when eating.  Gary introduced Hunter to Cherrios, Motorclass, and Horseback riding.  In the beginning Gary came twice a month and then he eventually came once a month.
 
 
Hunter's Speech Therapy
Hunter started speech therapy at about 2 years old.  Gayleen Bennitt was his speech therapist.  The thing that we learned about Hunter early on is that he had a super sensitive gag reflex and that he has oral-motor sensory issues.  For Hunter that means he doesn't like mixed texture foods.  Because of Hunter's low muscle tone it has taken a while to learn how to chew his food.  Gayleen's specialty is with feeding.  She helped us get from baby food to purees to textures.  She introduced Hunter to the Cheeto!! His favorite food!  She has helped us slowly work in different types of textures.  Hunter has made progress with his eating but it is a work in progress.  Gayleen never really got the chance to work on actual speech with Hunter because he still has things he needs to be able to do before he learns to talk.  Gayleen came twice a month until the last 4 months and then she only came one time a month.
 

 
 
Hunter's General Development
Hunter's GD was Marsha Lima.  We have had several of GD's in our time with KOTM.  Our first one was Charity Wheeler, then Kimber Goodwin and then finally Marsha Lima.  Marsha should have been the one we worked with from the beginning but unfortunately that wasn't the case.  Marsha introduced Hunter to "communication".  Because Hunter is still a ways a way from talking Marsha taught us that speech and communication is two different things.  She helped us recognize that Hunter was actually communicating with us in non-verbal ways.  Marsha was originally assigned to Fisher and she feel in-love with Hunter and I really liked her ideas so I had KOTM make the switch. Marsha saw Hunter twice a month.  Marsha taught me about CONNECTION... with not just Hunter but with my other kids too.
 
 
 
 Fisher's Speech
Fisher qualified for speech therapy with about 4 months before aging out.  Gayleen Bennitt was also Fisher's speech therapist.  Fisher loved when she would come and play with him with her bag full of toys.  They worked on using your lips to make sounds.  Gayleen taught me that if you want the child to say it correctly then the adults should say it how it is meant to be learned.  So none of this baby talk.  Gayleen showed us lots of tricks to get Fisher to use his lips and say sounds correctly.  Gayleen has worked with Fisher on 3 word phrases and annunciation.  Gayleen saw Fisher once per month.
 
 
Fisher's General Development
Fisher's GD was Marsh Lima.  Marsha came into our home with only 4 months remaining in the program.  She helped Fisher with listening and complying.  Marsha taught me to be consistent.  She taught me to ask the question, "Does it really matter?  If so, what are you going to do about it?"  She taught me to give lots of positive reinforcement and never give anything negative.  These couple of things have helped me be a better mom.  Marsha saw Fisher once per month.
 
We have loved KOTM!  We are sad about aging out of the program because they have provided us with so many things we can do to not only help Hunter and Fisher progress but has helped our family progress!  Change is hard and transitioning to the school district has been tough.  But this change is inevitable so we are going to take it head on with a positive attitude. 
 
Hunter qualified to go to the school district's "special education preschool".  Fisher did not qualify for services. 

Thursday, September 20, 2012

The funny things 5-year-olds say

September 2012.

Oh the funny things that 5-year-olds say.  Here are some funny things that Justin has said in the last little while.


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Justin at the dinner table: "I don't like peaches."
Mom: "I know.  I didn't give you very many so you just have to taste one."
Justin: "I'll start eating peaches when you start acting like a grown up."
Mom: "Oh, ya."
Justin: "That means I'll never eat peaches."

HAHAHAHAHAHA!!!  Loved his reasoning!


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Mom: "Justin, you haven't been listening very good the last couple of days.  How come?"
Justin: "My heart feels bad."
Mom: "It does?"
Justin: "When my heart feels bad I make bad decisions."
Mom: "Well, lets say a little prayer that your heart will feel good so you can make good decisions."
Justin: "No, that would take 2 days to work.  If I just change my heart to good then I can make good decisions after one day."
Mom: "Oh."
Justin: "Yeah. So I will start listening to you tomorrow."

HAHA what a crack up!



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Justin: "Fisher, you can't go deer hunting with dad."
Fisher:  whine and cry
Justin: "You have to be potty trained."

I think he was just rubbing it in that he got to go with Dad all by himself.


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Justin: "Mom, Dad, I have a brilliant idea. I know how we can get Hunter to walk without his walker tomorrow."
Dad: "You do?"
Justin: "Let's just say a prayer that Hunter can walk without his walker and Heavenly Father will help him."

What a precious little boy with faith that has no bounderies.  I just love him to pieces.



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Justin to the girl cutting his hair: "So if you are a hair cutter, who cuts your hair?"


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Justin: "Mom, why can't the kindergarteners play with the graders at recess?"
Mom: "Justin, that is a good question.  I dont know the answer so we better ask Dad."

The graders?  Haha.  I told him he would have to ask Tyler so that Tyler could hear how cute it was when Justin said "the graders"!!




2 little monkeys jumping on the bed

September 3, 2012.
 
Fisher and Hunter like to jump in Hunter's bed.  This picture looks like Fisher is "instructing" Hunter on how to do it and Hunter looks like he is soaking it all in.
 
Ready, set, jump!
 
Aren't they so stinking cute!!

How Hunter holds his sippy cup

September 1, 2012.
 
This is how Hunter holds his sippy.....
 
Step 1. Get feet up by the sippy and point sippy towards mouth.
 
Step 2. Wiggle feet under arms.
 
Step 3.  Enjoy a sippy full of vanilla (or chocolate or strawberry) milk bent in half. 
 
Sometimes he even gets a toe in his mouth at the same time!!
 
What a character.
 

36 years old!

August 31, 2012.

Tyler is 36 years old!!  Where does the time go?!?

I tried to do something different and fun for Tyler's birthday this year.  I surprised him with a night away to Salt Lake and made arrangements for the boys to sleep at Grandma's and cousin Keegan's.  I was so excited!! 

I picked Tyler up at his work and we went to dinner at Chili's.  He had no idea that I had a SURPRISE up my sleeve.  So when we left I just got on the freeway and told him I had more plans than just dinner.  He was very surprised.  Let's just say that should have been the end of the plan and we should have went and picked up the boys and went home.

We got to our hotel (I am not saying which one) and it was terrible!!  The room stunk so bad of must it was like we were sleeping in a locker room.  Anyway..... it just continued to get worse and worse.  At 3:30 in the morning neither of us had slept a wink so we decided to check out and go home.  We went home and finally got to bed at 5:30 am.  We slept till noon and then went and got the boys. 

I was so disappointed.  I had planned to attend a session and the Salt Lake Temple.  I packed our temple clothes and everything....I was prepared.  But instead we went home and slept.  Most expensive night of sleep, to say the least. 

However, after some phone calls and several talks with the assistant manager I was able to get a 50% refund.  I guess that was ok.  I should have read a few reviews before scheduling a bed-and-breakfast type of place.  Or I will just leave all scheduling up to Tyler from here on out.  No more surprises for him.

The next day we had our parents for a small BBQ and cake and ice cream. It was fun.  I got Tyler some new hunting clothes (all the wrong sizes so he had to take them back).  I think that I am going to tell Tyler that in the future he can just plan on birthdaying himself and that way everyone will be happy!

Here is a picture of Tyler and the boys.  Fisher has his hand in front of his face but this is about the best I could get that night.  The boys like celebrating with their dad.


Happy Birthday Tyler!

Fisher's fishies

August 30, 2012.

Fisher has been so sad about Justin going to school on the school bus that I took him to the Dollar Store and let him pick something out.  He picked out several things but settled on some fish squirters for the bath tub.  I let him play with them in the kitchen sink....for an hour and a half!


Now these little fishies are in the bath tub and he is very protective of them and doesnt like to share them very often.

At least he is happy!

Justin's first year of soccer

August 28, 2012.
 
Justin is playing his first year of little league soccer and he LOVES it.  I am a little bit of a proud momma.  His favorite part is scoring goals (of course)!  He usually scores a couple a game.  He is such a good little dribbler.  One game he got 5 goals and hit the goalpost sidebar 3 times.  He is a determined little guy.
 
 
Every mom has to get a picutre of everyone standing around.  Justin is on the far left.
 
Here Justin is breaking away from the group with the ball.
 
Team cheer.... Go Rhinos!
 
Taking a break.  He always wants to have a powerade zero for every game.
 
Way to go Justin!